Some guys dread Valentine's Day because they don't know what to buy or how to plan a date or how to pick out flowers. But they know they have to do something, so it's a lot of stress.

Here's how much lower the bar is for women.

According to a new poll, the #1 gift guys want to get for Valentine's Day this year is NOTHING.

Over 500 men were asked what they want, and 41% said they don't want anything for Valentine's Day. It's possible a lot of those guys just aren't in relationships though.

The survey only asked if they were married or not. And about a third of the guys weren't. So some of them are probably just single and don’t expect to get anything. 25% of women also said they don't want anything this year.

The top five gifts women DO want to get are a card, candy, flowers, jewelry, and a massage.

The top five gifts men want are candy, a card, BOOZE, breakfast in bed and a book. (Apparently, R-rated stuff wasn't an option in the survey.)

43% of men plan to spend at least $50 on Valentine's Day this year, compared to just 27% of women who plan to spend that much.